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Get Over Him

The Science-Based Toxic Breakup Recovery Program for Success-Focused Professional Women

Get Over Him

The Science-Based Toxic Breakup Recovery Program for Success-Focused Professional Women

Ready to actually heal from the trauma of a toxic relationship, not talk about it to death?

Get Over Him isn't just about getting over the ex, it's about getting over everything he left you with.

We are the only specialist program with 1:1 personal expert consults and a 97% success rate over the first 2 months. Heal fast and heal completely with our signature Core Identity Healing methods.

JOIN US TODAY. FEEL 50% LESS ANXIOUS BY NEXT WEEK.


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What Makes the GOH Program Different?
3 secrets behind our 97% success rate

We Get Love, Men & Trauma, and What Goes on in Your Head

We get it, we really do. It sucks and it's devastating.

It's goes on and on and doesn't stop, we know. 

Too many things are happening, we know. 

If we already know how you "work", we know how to solve it.

We Don't Keep Talking About Your Feelings Over and Over to Death

We just heal you. It's as simple as that.

90% of the women coming in have already gone the therapy or life coaching route.

It didn't work for them.

Then they come to us and true healing gets done.

We Don't Toss You Into a Course and Leave You to Heal on Your Own

95% of the women who come to us have already read everything but the kitchen sink. DIY-ing this can only go so far.

You don't need more knowledge, you need 1:1 personal guidance from a real human being.


How Shannon H. Got Over Her 13-Year Marriage in 3-4 Weeks, Is Loving Single Life & Became a Dating Powerhouse

How Monica H. Went from Codependent to Independent, Overcame Depression and Kickstarted A Business

Cherlyn Chong

Hi, my name is Cherlyn Chong Kelly and I'm a regularly consulted breakup trauma and dating specialist on Forbes, Business Insider, Elite Daily, Yahoo!, MSN, AskMen, Mindbodygreen and Bustle. 

Based in Singapore and Las Vegas, I've helped over 4,000 women from USA, Canada, Australia and S.E. Asia get over their exes and find freedom again.

And I deeply believe that the only way to get over a toxic breakup is to be as fabulous as you can be without the ex.

Introducing the Get Over Him Program

Introducing the 

Get Over Him

Program

Designed to Get Accomplished Women Unfucked and Unstuck So You Can Feel Good Enough


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Get Over Him is my 10-week Science-Based Program with 1:1 private specialist consults and an amazing Facebook Community that truly gets you over a hurtful ex. And well, everything else he left you with.

Smart, success-focused women do not need to talk about their feelings to death with a therapist or more information from books.


They need to get shit done.

During the full 10 weeks, you will be hand-held each step of the way with the Get Over Him framework. Heal with the Core Identity Rewrite & Resolve methods for recovering from trauma, and learn how to use the Core Identity Change system to move forward in life. 

Also, you'll get live feedback from me and other women in the GOH Warrior's Inner Circle Facebook Group. After the live 10 weeks are done, you'll have access to the program and group for life.

Additionally, you'll gain access to worksheets, homework assignments, bonus modules, live workshops, live healing sessions, hypnotherapy audios and my best resources to help you get over your ex, get over the trauma he left you with and heal up for good.

Heal from the Trauma and His Abuse. Fast.

It can feel like he took a big piece of you and ran away with it. Let's get that missing part of you back and make you whole once again.

Deal with Overwhelming Anxiety & C-PTSD

Dealing with too many thoughts, anxiety, brokenness and overwhelm? Let's put a stop to the  nonsense and find peace.

End the Cycle of Toxic Men & Bad Relationships

We don't just aim to heal you from your breakup. We aim to help you end the cycle of bad relationships and shitty men... for GOOD.

The best "revenge" against the ex is to be as fabulous as you can.

 
Live better, have better, BE better.


Get Started Now
Choose the Plan that's Right For You

How much time, energy and emotions has he cost you? How much are stress and overwhelm setting you back in your career? Are you jeopardizing your job because of him? 

How much therapy have you had already? Can you afford to waste more time, energy and money on the wrong men?

HIRING A TOP THERAPIST
$2,000 + for 10 weeks
WASTED TIME, ENERGY, EMOTION & FINANCES ON THE WRONG MAN
$10,000 - Priceless in value

(you can never get your time, energy or money back)

THE GET OVER HIM PROGRAM
US$1,600
ONE-TIME INVESTMENT, LIFETIME ACCESS


— BEST VALUE —

One Payment of

$1,600

USD

  • 10-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 10x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 10 Weeks

(Save US$155)

— PAYMENT PLAN —

3 Monthly Payments of

$585

USD

  • 10-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 10x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 10 Weeks

(Get All Benefits Immediately)

HAVE A QUESTION AND WANT TO TALK TO ME DIRECTLY?

Who is the program for?
It's for women who are...


  • Really tired of being the fixers of men
  • Successful in life but not in love (yet)
  • Sick and tired of crying over the ex
  • Ready to take charge of their lives and heal from the trauma and abuse
  • Really tired of talking it out in therapy
  • In need of real, proven results that stick
  • Looking for a healthy, loving relationship
  • Invested and committed to their success, both personally and professionally

So to sum up...
Here's what you'll get:


GOH Framework

with Actionable
Systems & Strategies

Smart, ambitious women don't need more knowledge or to talk about feelings to death. They need to get shit done. All my systems are easy to implement and execute... and they get results. Fast.

Healing Methods 

That Resolve Trauma, Not Prolong It

Heal live with me as I walk you through the Core Identity Healing methods to shatter old beliefs that keep you in high-functioning anxiety and addiction. Find your closure and your strength.

GOH Framework

with Actionable
Systems & Strategies

Smart, ambitious women don't need more knowledge or to talk about feelings to death. They need to get shit done. All my systems are easy to implement and execute... and they get results. Fast.

Healing Methods 

That Resolve 

Trauma, Not

Prolong It

Heal live with me as I walk you through the Core Identity Healing method to shatter old beliefs that keep you in high-functioning anxiety and addiction. Find your closure and your strength.

Lifetime Access to

the Facebook Community & Support

Share your story and get 24/7 lifetime support in the Get Over Him Inner Circle Facebook Group and build relationships with other like-minded women. It's truly a sisterhood and new best friends.

1:1 Private Guidance 

and Accountability

So You'll Never Fall Back

Get advice from me during your 1:1 private sessions or in the group. Learn how to apply the Get Over Him science framework to your lifestyle and be kept accountable through easy homework.

Lifetime Access

to the Facebook Community & Support

Share your story and get 24/7 lifetime support in the Get Over Him Inner Circle Facebook Group and build relationships with other like-minded women. It's truly a sisterhood and new best friends.

1:1 Private 

Guidance and 

Accountability

So You'll Never

Fall Back

Get advice from me during your 1:1 private sessions or in the group. Learn how to apply the Get Over Him science framework to your lifestyle and be kept accountable through easy homework.

Let's dive a little deeper
Here's what you'll learn:


The Get Over Him Framework consists of 6 core strategy modules delivered over 10 weeks. All materials—streaming videos, MP3s, downloadables, homework submission forms and more—are within a members-only online portal.

MODULE 1

Drowning and The Loss of Your Ship

Our journey starts with acknowledging two key things—that there's a moment of pure shock when your ship (your relationship) sinks and then the devastation that feels like you are drowning.  As you go through this module, we'll start the Core Identity Rewrite & Resolve processes in the 1:1 sessions.

In this module, you'll:

Learn the psychology of shock

Are you still in emotional shock? I.e. "Can't believe this is happening to me" or you feel like you're in a brain fog. Find out here and what to do about it.

Prevent self-doubt

Prevent self-doubt from spiraling out of control with one powerful ritual.

Deal with the endless thoughts of him

These thoughts can be merciless. Let's deal with how to get them to stop and how to get some space in your mind.

Enforce No Contact

Lock in your No Contact and save the date. Let's help you enforce it and understand why it's so important.

Compartmentalize feelings with the "Robot" technique

Compartmentalize the painful feelings with the "Robot" technique so you can just get what you need done.

Make your Core Identity Goals

It's important to dial down and create these goals with me so that you DO have something to look forward to. We want to get the goals in FIRST and then figure a way to get to them.

This prevents us from wandering about aimlessly with your recovery. Figure out the result, and THEN figure out the way to it.

MODULE 2

Getting to the Surface

The endless onslaught of devastation can feel like drowning, but we'll gently get you floating to the surface for your first breath of air. The Core Identity Healing—Cleanse process continues here.

In this module, you'll:

  • Understand why grieving and expressing your emotions—devastation, anger, guilt, fear, shame, etc—is so important 
  • Be able to survive the necessary grief work as we work through it step by step
  • Discover why the "Purging" technique is a key thing to do after grieving
  • Get the answers to the Stage 1 questions in your head—why your relationship failed, why your ex did what he did, etc
  • Get inside the heads of narcissistic, angry, controlling and emotionally abusive men and understand why they do what they do
  • Find the courage within you to accept that your breakup happened
  • Leverage your Core Identity Decision for deep empathy and compassion to help you look forwards, not back

MODULE 3

Learning How to Swim

Now we're really flowing!

The waves ahead can be super daunting, but we'll start the psychological separation between you and your relationship by learning how to take very small strokes before the bigger, scarier ones. We find your closure here.

In this module, you'll:

  • Use the "Reject the Rejector" visualization that mentally puts your ex back in his place
  • Discover how to drop the victim mindset and embracing the "What Does It Take?" bulletproof mindset
  • Challenge your deepest doubts, insecurities and fears so you can make a "Daring Decision"
  • Use the seemingly counterproductive "Even More" method to propel yourself to take that first, scary step forward
  • Learn more about yourself and the chemicals that make up addiction 
  • Delve deep into the science of high-functioning anxiety and depression that many career-driven women have
  • Understand why your great professional traits are sabotaging you and your love life
  • Give yourself complete closure over what happened with the ex

MODULE 4

Finding Your Own Cruise Ship

We are swimming along powerfully and establishing ourselves as a brand new person. We're finding our own damn cruise ship, building it up and firmly proclaiming ourselves as the captain of it. We start the Core Identity Healing—Change process here.

In this module, you'll:

  • Rise up and establish your key identity—the daring new person you truly want to be
  • Create identity-based habits that stick using the "Implementation Intention" strategy and my favorite habit tracker app
  • Implement performance techniques that get 300% more done at work, so you can stress less and think of him less
  • Learn an astonishingly simple meditation for high performers, used by top employees and CEOs at Barclays, Google and Forbes
  • Learn how to avoid burnout and sleep like a cat
  • Utilize the extremely powerful "Anchor" method to take back control of the painful memories 
  • Learn exactly what your relationship attachment style is and what you can do about it

MODULE 5

Surviving the Waves

Grief waves are just a part of the process, but no one is ever prepared for how devastating it might actually be. Here, we find out to how prepare for and deal as life lets a huge tidal wave splash over you again.

In this module, you'll:

  • Understand and deal with the grief waves and painful triggers
  • "Embrace the Suck"—how to utilize this military speak to deal with the lemons life throws
  • Get the answers to the Stage 2 questions in your head—how can he move on so easily, why is this so hard for you, etc
  • Leverage your anger and any desire for revenge to producing the best professional and personal results you have in years
  • Actively manage loneliness and hopelessness—what to do when it gets too much
  • Learn how to deal with the ex if you bump into him, if he comes back or if you are undergoing difficulties in court

MODULE 6

Finding Land

Whoohoo! You have lead your ship to land. On this new soil, you'll say goodbye to the ocean where your former relationship lies, forgive, let go and move on for good. You now have the power to NEVER let another relationship conquer you ever again.

In this module, you'll:

  • Severe all attachments and release yourself from the ex in a "Promise Break" ceremony 
  • Forgive yourself, your ex and all past exes with the "Water Flow" ritual
  • Learn how to lock in new behaviors and habits that end the cycle of toxic men for good
  • Learn more about narcissists, angry, controlling and immature men and how to spot them immediately
  • Set down soft and hard boundaries for people and never allow toxicity into your life again
  • Discover how to conquer the crippling fear of getting hurt again by a man
  • Cultivate vulnerability and true courage so you can live a heart-centered life

And Additional Bonuses
To help you in your journey:

BONUS #1

7-Day Reverse Recovery Course

The Reverse Recovery is a more intensive 7-day self-paced audio course where we reverse the steps of healing to ensure that you heal much faster than traditional, time-consuming methods of healing.


Designed for the busy woman, by the end of the week, you will not only feel profoundly healed but you will also rediscover your authentic self and ignite hope again in your heart.

BONUS #2

"Back to Life" Lessons

The main modules cover a whole bunch of material, but there will still be some very specific things that you might experience during your healing journey. These bonus lessons will help you out even more:

  • How to Get Yourself to Sleep and Eat
  • Dealing with the Dreams
  • How to Break it to Other People
  • Copy + Paste Texts for Dealing with the Ex

BONUS #3

Hypnotherapy MP3s

Hypnotherapy is a great tool to help relax and imprint unconscious empowering ideas in your head. There's one Get Over Him hypnotherapy for each healing module, voiced personally by me:

  • You're Doing Just Fine
  • Stop Thinking of Him
  • Reject the Rejector
  • You Are Loved
  • Embrace the Suck
  • This Too Shall Pass

BONUS #4

Live Facebook Group Workshops + Healing Sessions

In addition to the 1:1 private sessions and support, you get LIVE Workshops and LIVE Healing Sessions with me where I take you through the science and psychology of one specific hot topic or heal you up right in that session.

Both will be conducted on alternative weeks of each other, and you will get topics like:

  • The Science of High-Functioning Anxiety and How to Beat It
  • EFT Tapping to Calm the F**k Down When Your Narcissistic Ex Pisses You Off
  • The Science of The Highly Sensitive Person and The Angry, Selfish Man
  • Why Does He Hurt Me?—Inside the Head of the Narcissistc and Angry Man

What Women Are Saying About Me
Did they get a kickass result?


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What is the Get Over Him program?

It's a science-based breakup recovery program for smart, career-driven professional women who want to get over a man, heal completely from trauma and be free, confident and fearless.

Responsible, determined people get more done than most people, but they also get hurt more deeply.

Our philosophy is that the only way to get over a breakup is to be as fabulous as you can WITHOUT the ex.

How is the program delivered?

The program is delivered through the 1:1 private sessions with me and via 6 core modules on an online members-only portal, live workshops, and a private Facebook group. On the Get Over Him portal, you can also find additional resources for each module and access all of the bonuses.

The live portion of the program is 10 weeks long, and then you will have lifetime access to the modules, resources and Facebook Group.

Once you enroll, you'll receive your login details and have immediate access to Module 1 on the online portal and live Get Over Him Inner Circle Facebook community.

We will also officially start the 1:1 coaching sessions with me, first being the Deep Dive sessions, followed by the Core Identity Healing sessions. The modules are dripped out weekly, so that we can all go through this together.




Every time a new module is unlocked, you will receive an email informing you about it. There will be other emails in your inbox to motivate you and keep you accountable.


Each module will have homework for you to complete and get feedback on. There will also be other resources like hypnotherapy audios, worksheets and software for you to use.


As we go along, you'll be invited to participate in the Facebook community and any live workshops that I conduct, just for you. =)

What if I don't have the time do this program yet?

Hop on a call with me so we can plan this out for you HERE.


And not to worry, all of the modules will be inside the members-only portal waiting for you when you're ready. 


The live Q&A calls and all other group sessions with me are also recorded, so you can catch up on those at your convenience as well. 


But all in all, I seriously recommend that you make the time. You find time for things that are important to you, and you're not successful today because you "didn't have the time."



So, make time for things that are important to you. After all, you had time for the shitty men in your life, so it's time for you now.

Why is it important for me to get over him?

If you find that the quality of your mental state and life have deteriorated because of your ex, and this has been a painful problem for you for years, it's time to resolve it entirely.


Without getting the help you need, you're likely to keep repeating the same pattern with the same sort of men in the future.


It's not fun to be constantly betrayed, abandoned, and rejected for years. :'(

What's the % success rate and what kind of results can I expect?

As of November 2020, 97% of the women in the program have gotten over their exes thoroughly. 


I will say that you WILL experience a profound change if you truly do the work, show up and follow through.


Many of the women who worked with me have experienced the following:


  1. True peace with what happened
  2. A lot less rumination around the ex
  3. Clear insight and clarity as to what happened
  4. Clear insight and clarity to the type of men they tend to attract
  5. Successful No-Contact with the ex
  6. No more doubting themselves or their decisions
  7. Got a promotion or got hired for a new job
  8. More money earned (we've added $13,000 to $50,000 to the annual income of our clients)
  9. More peaceful sleep and less nightmares
  10. Not waking up dreading the day
  11. Less weight on their chests
  12. Much less anxiety around the breakup
  13. Much stronger boundaries
  14. Forgiveness of themselves and the ex
  15. Less procrastination
  16. A lot less fear around the future
  17. Real hope for the future
  18. The courage to walk bravely forward
  19. Taking charge of their lives, including the upleveling of their professional lives
  20. Setting real boundaries and sticking to them


Please note that while these results are common, the exact type of result you get depends entirely on you. 


I cannot guarantee the results simply because I can't guarantee you'll do the work.

Your results will be based on many variables, such as your level of effort, tendency to procrastinate or go back on yourself, personal qualities, knowledge, skills, and a host of other factors.


I anticipate the pitfalls and put in effort to make sure that you get 100% success, but my techniques only work if you do! I'm not a "get over your ex overnight and easily" kind of coach. The process still does take time, discipline, determination and hard work.


The more focus and dedication you put into Get Over Him, the more you’ll get out of it.

Is this program suitable for women going through a divorce or just a breakup?

Both. Get Over Him is suitable for any success-focused career woman going through heartbreak from a man.

It's been a while since my breakup/divorce. Can I still enroll?

Yes!


Because if you're still devastated and not healed, there's a part of your healing process that you've skipped or have not been able to deal with. Plus, you also want to make sure that this sort of hurt doesn't happen again.

I like to joke that my real job is to prevent people from getting divorced in a few years' time because you'll be with the RIGHT guy. 😉

My question isn't listed here—how do I get in touch?

You can type in your question directly in the Messenger chat on the right and we'll get back to you asap. 


And of course, you can definitely ask your question in the free clarity call with me. ;)


But if you feel more comfortable, a third option is to send your question through the contact form below and we'll get right back to you.

Get Started Now
Choose the Plan that's Right For You


— BEST VALUE —

One Payment of

$1,600

USD

  • 10-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 10x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 10 Weeks

(Save US$155)

— PAYMENT PLAN —

3 Monthly Payments of

$585

USD

  • 10-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 10x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 10 Weeks

(Get All Benefits Immediately)

— BEST VALUE —

One Payment of

$1,590

AUD

  • 8-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 6x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/Email Support Chat
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 8 Weeks

(Save AU$180)

— PAYMENT PLAN —

3 Monthly Payments of

$590

AUD

  • 8-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 6x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/Email Support Chat
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 8 Weeks

(Get All Benefits Immediately)

— BEST VALUE —

One Payment of

$1,250

USD

  • 8-Week Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 6x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 8 Weeks

(Save US$127)

— PAYMENT PLAN —

3 Monthly Payments of

$459

USD

  • 8 Weeks Live Program, 6 Modules
  • 6x 1:1 Private Expert Sessions with Cherlyn
  • 1:1 Private Messenger/WhatsApp/Email Support
  • Private Inner Circle Facebook Community
  • Conquering Trauma, C-PTSD and Anxiety Live Workshops, Reverse Recovery Course, "Back to Life" Lessons & Hypnotherapies
  • Lifetime Access After the 8 Weeks

(Get All Benefits Immediately)

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