I know how it's like to love someone so damn much and think, "Finally, this is it," only to get completely screwed over.
You thought you'd NEVER be heartbroken over a guy.. AGAIN.. especially when you thought, after so many other men, that you had finally gotten it right.
And the many questions start pouring in.
"Is there something wrong with me?"
"How could he move on so quickly?"
"How does he have it so easy?"
"Am I not meant to have love?"
And the worst of the lot:
That question haunts you—right from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to bed.
Night times are the worst, because that's when you're truly alone with your thoughts and they go round and round in your head.
I know that, despite everything that happened, you still wish you could have him back. Not the angry, hurtful him.. the loving, kind him.
Because when it was good, it was really good.
No one had the confidence he did.
No one paid as much attention to you as he did.
No one challenged you like he did.
You miss him, I know.
The way he joked with you, those little couple jokes no one else knew.
The way he smiled his smile that made you melt inside.
The way he looked in the morning while he slept.
The way he smelled... a scent that you could lose yourself in.
You truly believed that you two would make it.
And it hurts you.. really devastates you to the core that he didn't.. wouldn't.. fight for what you had.
He broke his promises to you and went off and now you're left picking up the pieces of your broken heart.
For years, I've worked with smart, ambitious women just like you who are lost, devastated and betrayed. All that pain is as real as fuck and you carry it as a huge weight on your chest every single day.
But here’s the truth you need to know..
No matter how hard you work to push past this, how much progress you've made, no matter how successful you are in the other areas of your life, one of the most important habits you need to develop in order to get your happily ever after is this:
Don't just take my word for it, look at the divorce statistics.
In the US alone, 41% of first marriages, 67% of second and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. Why? People don't learn. They self-sabotage, again and again and again.
I can't stress this enough.
Because it really isn't the fact that Jesus hates us (right?) or that we weren't enough or that there is something wrong with us, but the fact that, for some reason, we chose to ACCEPT men who make really lousy boyfriends and husbands.
Yes, it's completely not our fault that our partners are douchecanoes, but it's our responsibility to figure out how to push past the carnage and take charge of our lives.. and make that stick.
If you've been in this position many times before, always getting screwed over by the wrong men, then there's a high chance that you will continue doing something really ineffective unless you get real with yourself.
I should know, because I've dated man after man who just didn't give a crap about me when it really came down to it. I've let them use me, lower me and emotionally abuse me.
And in 2015, I got pretty much screwed when my ex, who promised to marry me, not once but twice, broke my heart 4 times and left me sobbing and exhausted from trying to get him to see that I was worth it, that WE were worth it.
By the time the last breakup rolled around, he had hurt me so much that, in a moment of pure clarity, I decided that I was DONE. D.O.N.E.
I was determined to do something about it. I was going to get back my goddamn shining light, and I was going to take back my life.
So I did just that, and in 30 short days I was able to bounce back from breakup to breakthrough. I got pretty damn real with myself and literally become a different person. I made sure to NEVER repeat the same relationship mistakes I made before, which resulted in meeting my current wonderful boyfriend in less than a year from my breakup.
And I want the exact same thing for you too.
Get Over Him is my 8-Week Science-Based Blueprint Course with private access to an amazing Facebook Community that truly gets you.
Run personally by me, the group consists of women who are going through the EXACT same thing you're going through, and we're all going to do this together, LIVE in real time.
During the full 8 weeks, if you hit any snag, no matter how small, you'll be able to vent, find support and great advice from me and women who care.
I hop around and answer ALL questions in the group personally. You'll also be invited to empowering ~1hr LIVE coaching sessions in the group that I'll be conducting every single week as each module becomes available to you.
Additionally, you'll gain access to worksheets, homework assignments, bonus modules, live workshops, live healing sessions, hypnotherapy audios and my best resources to help you power through your breakup and heal up for good.
Heal Your Soul
It can feel like he took a big piece of you and ran away with it. Let's get that missing part of you back and make you whole once again.
Stop the Painful Thoughts
Constantly thinking of him or all the good times and beating yourself up for it? Let's put a stop to that nonsense and find you peace.
End the Cycle of Hurt
We don't just aim to heal you from your breakup. We aim to help you end the cycle of bad relationships and shitty men.. for GOOD.
Drowning and The Loss of Your Ship
Our journey starts with acknowledging two very key things—that there's a moment of pure shock when your ship (your relationship) sinks and then the devastation that feels like you are drowning.
In this module, you'll:
Getting to the Surface
The endless onslaught of devastation can feel like drowning with no end in sight, but here, we gently get you floating to the surface for your first breath of precious air.
In this module, you'll:
Learning How to Swim
Now we're really flowing!
The road ahead can be super daunting, but we'll start the psychological separation between you and your relationship by learning how to take very small strokes before the bigger, scarier ones.
In this module, you'll:
Finding Your Own Cruise Ship
We are swimming along powerfully and establishing ourselves as a brand new person on this Earth. We're finding our own damn cruise ship, building it up and firmly proclaiming ourselves as the captain of it.
In this module, you'll:
Surviving the Waves
Grief waves are just an part of the process, but no one is ever prepared for how devastating it might actually be. Here, we find out to how prepare for and deal as life lets a huge tidal wave splash over you again.
In this module, you'll:
You have lead your ship to land. On this new soil, you'll say goodbye to the ocean where your former relationship lies, forgive, let go and move on for good. You now have the power to NEVER let another relationship conquer you ever again.
In this module, you'll:
Deep Dive Session
This special 1-hr Deep Dive Session is included for all FAST-ACTION early birds who enroll into the course while on the call.
This is a 1:1 coaching session with me where we:
The main modules cover a whole bunch of material, but there will still be some very specific things that you might experience during your healing journey. These bonus lessons will help you out even more:
Hypnotherapy is a great tool to help relax and imprint unconscious empowering ideas in your head. There's one Get Over Him hypnotherapy for each healing module, voiced personally by me:
Live Facebook Group Workshops + Healing Sessions
In addition to the LIVE Facebook Coaching Sessions every week, you get LIVE Workshops and LIVE Healing Sessions with me where I take you through the science and psychology of one specific HOT topic OR heal you up right in that session.
Both will be conducted on alternative weeks of each other, and you will get topics like:
1-Year Access to Sleep & Meditation Software
I LOVE my meditation and sleep apps, and I only recommend the ones I use for myself and my past clients that have really worked for us. So you get 1 year's access to:
Both. Get Over Him is suitable for any woman going through heartbreak from a man.
I will say that you WILL experience a profound change if you truly do the work, show up and follow through. But I cannot guarantee the results simply because I can't guarantee you'll do the work.
My techniques only work if you do! I'm not a "get over your ex overnight and easily" kind of coach! The process still does take TIME, discipline, determination and hard work!
Note that while many of the women I have closely worked with were able to get over their exes, absolutely no one can guarantee that you get over your ex 100%, and if they do, I'd be wary of them. It truly depends on many variables like your willpower, your mental health and level of effort.
Many of the women who worked with me have experienced the following:
Please note that while these results are common, the exact type of result you get depends entirely on you. Your results will be based on many variables, such as your level of effort, tendency to procrastinate or go back on yourself, personal qualities, knowledge, skills, and a host of other factors.
I want to make sure that Get Over Him this is the right next step for you, so I will share the investment in our free clarity call.
Why do I do this?
I am transformational coach who knows exactly what keeps people in pain and stuck, and putting the investment upfront won't serve you if you don't get into a sincere call with me first for me to understand your personal needs and the challenges you face.
If the course is not a fit for you, no worries at all. But if it is, I'll be telling you exactly what can happen for you if you commit to the process 100%.
While the investment is designed to be a stretch, it’s also very doable. There are payment plans, and my goal is to empower you, not drain you.
Just click right here and schedule that no-obligation call with me. =)
Yes! Because if you're still devastated and not healed, there's a part of your healing process that you've skipped or have not be able to deal with. Plus, you also want to make sure that this sort of hurt doesn't happen again.
I make sure you go through the RIGHT steps to your freedom and peace.
I do recommend making some time for your mental health to take the course and follow through as we do it together! You'll get the best results that way.
But if you truly can't, no worries, you get lifetime access to the course platform and can easily work at your own pace, on your own schedule. All live sessions and workshops will be recorded and uploaded onto the platform for you to view in your own time.
We're all busy women who have families, full-time jobs and personal lives—I get it! This experience is designed to stretch you, but it can also be customized to your life.
Once you enroll, you'll receive your login details and have immediate access to the online course platform, live Facebook community and Module 1. We will officially start the live portion of the course when the registration deadline closes. The modules are dripped out weekly, so that we can all go through this together.
Every time a new module is unlocked, you will receive an email informing you about it. There will be other emails in your inbox to motivate you and cheer you up. Each module will have homework for you to complete, submit and get feedback on. There will also be other downloadables like hypnotherapy audios for you to listen to.
As we go along, you'll be invited to participate in the Facebook community, the weekly live coaching sessions and any live workshops that I conduct, just for you. =)
Yes, you get permanent access to the course platform and the community for as long as they are both online. =) Please note that the live portion and your live support does run for 8 weeks, but when the course opens for enrollment again, you can basically restart the live workshops and live coaching calls.
I highly recommend individual coaching sessions if you're having very limited success with therapy or are prone to crippling procrastination and going back on yourself.
Some people take well to therapy, while others might resonate better with a more goal-based and action-orientated approach that specialist coaching provides.
To learn more about how I can help you 10x your healing process with individual coaching, just book your call and when we meet, I will discuss your options with you to see if that is what you truly need.
You can type in your question directly in the chatbox on the right and we'll get back to you asap.
You can also send your question to firstname.lastname@example.org. And of course, you can definitely ask your question in the free clarity call with me. =)
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