30 Days of Healing
Let's mend your broken heart in just 20mins a day.
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If there was a magical way to unsuck a breakup, we would definitely all be on it by now.
But the fact remains that breakups do suck.
And everything after that doesn't get much better either.
I've found that, even though friends do mean well and do help a lot at the initial stage, it eventually and inevitably ends up in this scenario:
And then.. well, it was more or less up to me to really get over it.
That's fine I guess.. but the struggle was that I didn't really know how.
I mean, what do you do when toxic thoughts like "Why wasn't I good enough?" keep going round and round in your head?
How do you go on when are so very many emotions to deal with that you simply just need to sit down and breathe for a minute?
And how exactly do you deal with the knowledge that there's now a huge gaping hole in your heart and you don't know if it's ever going to be filled again?
When I think back to when I was struggling, I really would have appreciated someone to help me through it all.
Someone to tell me that I wasn't alone, that what I was feeling wasn't something stupid or strange or silly.
Someone to tell me just how to not torture myself with everything.
And someone to just listen.
Heartbreak Buddy is my answer to the wishes of my past heartbroken self.
I created it because if I had someone to guide me back then, I wouldn't have taken 2 years to get over someone who was just always going to leave.
Absolutely NO ONE is worth taking that much time to get over.
NO ONE is worth that amount of pining, that amount of disintegrating self-respect and that amount of hopelessness.
I want to make sure that you won't ever have to worry about taking 2 full years to let go of that much pain.
I want to make sure that you get over this fast.
So think of the course as a really good pair of underwear.
No one knows it's there, but you still feel pretty dang awesome.
You're going to be OK, I promise.
YOU matter, and YOU are enough.
There really is a light at the end of that very dark tunnel.
It's just up to you if you truly want to see it.
I was skeptical at first because I wasn't quite sure if the e-mail/course was something I really needed.
After reading over your comic, website and the packages offered, I decided to do it. It took me a few days to decide but I am so glad I signed up.
There really is a light at the end of that very dark tunnel. It's just up to you if you truly want to see it.
Your daily e-mails and the Unfuck Yourself FB group offer wonderful resources and outlets for the situation.
I sometimes feel like I may bombard other people with my emotions and the breakup. I don't want to tire out my family and friends with my current situation. So it's great to have the support group available.
It's definitely been hard to read some of your e-mails, the truth really does hurt but I cannot tell you how much this puts things into perspective. I just have to remind myself that this pain is temporary and nothing is permanent.
I feel like I'm slowly gaining my power back and pulling in those anchors... HBB is my savior and I can't thank you enough!
Who the HECK am I?
My name is Cherlyn and I'm a transformational life coach for smart, busy women who have no time to be devastated over their ex bfs or husbands.
Since then, I've made it my mission to push women past their own breakups and divorces because I never want anyone to suffer as much as I did.
I've always thought that laughter was the best medicine, and so I've been very determined to deliver a butt load of inappropriateness along with advice that actually works.
Think of me as your helluva interesting fairy godmother with pom-poms. And pu'er tea.
Let's Focus on That Plush Doll
There is NOTHING as important as YOU right now.
So let's start lovin' the heck out of you, shall we?
Let's Get You Daily Support
You're not alone in feeling what you feel.
There are many JUST like you, and you DON'T have to do this by yourself.
Let's Find You Your Turtle
A turtle is the moment when you are no longer in pain or thinking of him.
Let's find that moment.
So what is Heartbreak Buddy, exactly?
Heartbreak Buddy is a 30-day email course based off my popular Heartbreak comic, and is essentially exactly as it sounds like; a best friend who will go through your heartbreak with you.
It's the only healing course out there that combines science, cartoons, laughter and many of my original healing techniques to push you through your heartbreak, fast.
"Time heals all wounds" does NOT work and is actually rather shit advice. I say you can heal in as little as 5-20mins a day (that's how long each email takes to read).
This actually works simply because we will be focusing on all those baby steps to truly help you make that change. You've just fallen, and I'm here to help you walk again, step by step. I tell it like it is, all with YOU in the centre of it all (See, I'm a big fan of you.)
You might be wondering, is this course for you? Well, Heartbreak Buddy has been especially helpful for women who (tick all that apply):
If that sounds like you, you're in the right spot. Let's go cry like a baby, laugh our asses off and get stupidly happy together.
Depending on the Option You Choose, You'll Get:
1. 30 days of My Step-by-Step Proven Framework and the Most Entertaining Healing Roadmap Ever
This is the same healing framework I've used to push hundreds of people past their breakups with GREAT results!
Here's what we're going to cover:
After Week 4, you get an additional 10 bonus emails that dig deeper into the human psyche and give you additional tools to truly push you forward. That's 40 days of epic awesome!
Enough of all that fluff and all the "what you should do but not how to do it" long-ass paragraphs.
I'll tell you exactly why your ex is now in the SUCK category of your life, all about the importance of "The Great Mountain of Happyness" and why "Life's Just a Game of Dodgeballs."
And maybe, just maybe, you'll decide that you're really better off without that vile melodrama piece of cow dung your ex. =)
2. The "How to Tell Your Ex to Fuck Off" eBook
How to Tell Your Ex to Fuck Off: A Visual Guide to Shutting Up That Person in Your Head & Taking Back Your Sanity is an illustrated and rather charmingly inappropriate guide to help you get rid of the unwanted ex who insists on living in your head.
Yes, you can tell your memories to take a long walk off a very short pier. We're going to get personal, we're going to get empowered and we're going to do all of that with stupidly cute cats, aliens and shit.
It's the guide you have always wanted and never had. And it's going to rock your socks off.
Hear It From Women
Just Like You
"30 Days of healing with a best friend"
Yes, this is suitable for women who were recently in a relationship or marriage.
I am afraid that there is no book nor course in the world that will be able to help you if you do not want to help yourself.
Think of this as a fitness regime. If I tell you to do 10 push-ups today but you eat cake instead, then nothing I say will never help you. You must want to do the work to heal too.
What I CAN tell you though, is that so far, many participants in the course have sped up their healing incredibly, and some did get over their breakups in 30 days.. some even less, when they made the decision to really heal and get rid of the ex.
Even I was astonished!
So while I can't guarantee how fast you will get over your pain, MY specific goal is to get you to heal up as fast as possible. I do have a reputation to keep, after all. ;)
80% of the people who take this course have a history of depression or anxiety, so you'll fit right in!
Now to really answer your question - it will help to a certain degree, (and some people have even said that it has saved their lives!) but I won't lie, the Heartbreak Buddy course is only meant to deal with a breakup, not deep, unresolved traumas from the past.
It gives you a proven structure to help you cope daily, but can't do the deep, raw work that only a good coach, therapist or counselor can help with, and hence, I do state above that it should supplement, not replace, face-to-face therapy sessions.
Mental health is tricky, and people usually need a lot more guidance, accountability and tools in order to truly change their relationship habits for the better. In fact, there is no self-help book or course in the world that can help you if you tend to continuously take yourself out.
Well, cartoons. Also, probably the classy swearing.
I'll be digging deep, and giving you fresh new insights with unapologetic humor.
I'm NOT just giving you a bunch of comics and telling you that you don't suck!
What you will be learning is also based on actual research conducted by real scientists and psychotherapists.
Think of me as the Great Transcendent Voice of Truth.
And kinda maybe also the most interesting fairy godmother ever.
You absolutely can!
When you click on the buttons below, you will get
Give the universe the proverbial middle finger.
It's time YOU put the control of YOUR heart back into your own damn hands.
I was engaged, and then I was not.
I became depressed (I wasn't eating, stayed in bed and cried for hours on end, had thoughts about hurting myself) in the first month and was slowly climbing out of it..
Seeing your comic, Cherlyn, was a huge sign to me because it so clearly depicted what I was feeling and it contained a turtle! It was cute and it was very uplifting.
On top of seeing my therapist every Friday, this course and the Unfuck Yourself support group is fantastic.
I never thought something like this existed and, since I can't call my therapist every time I'm having a down day (because there are boundaries and I will get charged), I'm glad I can leave my thoughts here and have a supportive group that knows exactly what I'm going through and can offer me words of encouragement and words that will bring me back to reality.
You're all my Heartbreak Buddy therapists and friends!
Taking this course was one of the most beneficial, kindest things I have ever done for myself.
It not only became a rock to hold onto amongst those huge waves during a break up but I learnt so much about myself, about my ex (and ex's) and it was the start of a huge growth period of learning about relationships and what I want from one and how to go about getting that.
Thank you for the smart, humorous, real advice you gave me - tough love at times but generally 100% spot on.
Having a group where I could post how I was feeling and not be judged was so supportive and helped me heal.
I can't believe that I can even type these words and say that I am in love and love someone special again and he me. But this time it has been done right.
It's not a giddy, teenage love but a deep, contented, finally at peace, I want to grow old with him kind of love.
It took me over half my adult life to find this sort of love. Was it worth the wait and all that heartache that came before?
You bet. =)
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I'll hear something from the therapist I was seeing, and then a similar idea from you, and it's so crazy.. especially how sometimes you just AREN'T ready to believe it deep in your soul.
Both bring me a step closer to healing, and both need the other and almost play off one another... It's just crazy. I could ramble about this forever.
The plushie doll is a perfect image for the self-love that I've been working to cultivate in myself - learning how to love the hell out of myself, and appreciate myself for the incredible person I am.
I'm walking taller (I'm already 5'11" so now I'm really tall) and feeling stronger, wiser, and BETTER than I ever have in my whole life. It's so amazing.
Gosh, now I've really been rambling - but honestly, this course and your wise, true, empowering, honest words have had such an impact.
I'm so grateful for you and this course.
I've mentioned before how helpful this entire process was to my healing. I seriously would not be in this great place without it.
I would say I'm coming out (lawl gay joke since I'm a lesbian) of this course 75% healed in just 30 days which is far more than I expected.
The rest is just about continuing to work on myself, being able to date other people, and maintaining a healthy relationship with whoever the next one is.
And this course has taught me how to do all of those things.
Its oddly similar to personal training. After you've spent time working with clients, you want them to leave you feeling confident they can go into the real world and handle their shit! And thats how I feel :) #hairflip
And I just went on my first date since the break up! The phrase "good things fall apart so better things can fall together" could not be a more accurate way to describe my night. I am on Cloud 9!
In December I was so confused and fought with myself whether or not I need to start playing games to get him back.
I started listening to a lot of programs that tell you how you should behave when he distances himself.
Then, over the course of the past few months (and you have been such an essential part of my learning process), I finally understood, that actually those "tricks" are no tricks, it's just how one would behave naturally if we were loving ourselves.
It's such a pity that the developers of those programs advertise it as "tricks" to "hook" guys, as this transmits a completely wrong message to women: then we continue thinking, it's our responsibility to get them hooked and if we can't manage, we are not good enough.
I need to tell you how thankful I am about your words and comics.
I don't know you personally, don't even know what you studied, but I knew from the very beginning that it's smart what you are saying, and the way you say stuff really resonates with me
It's open, honest, direct, funny, uplifting, scientific and extremely compassionate. Seriously, I don't think there is any better way to do therapy for heartbreak than yours!